Derek is an Episcopal priest and a Franciscan tertiary in the Third Order, Society of St. Francis. Derek currently serves as Associate Rector at Good Shepherd Episcopal in Tequesta, FL. Derek has also worked as a school chaplain, a youth minister, worship leader, and bilingual (Spanish-English) preacher. He lives with his wife, two sons, and two cats in Jupiter, FL.
What are the stories from my past that have shaped my perceptions of others, and how might I need to re-examine them to align more closely with values of love and compassion?
In moments of discomfort or tension regarding others, how can I remind myself to listen for God’s story rather than my own preconceived narratives?
What specific groups or individuals do I find myself holding biases against, and how can I intentionally seek out their stories to foster understanding and empathy?
How do the stories I tell myself about my own identity and worth influence my actions and interactions with others?
In what ways can I actively choose new stories that promote healing, connection, and love in my daily life?
What areas in my life do I feel unprepared for or overwhelmed, and how might I bring those feelings to God?
Can I identify a specific situation where I believe my contributions are insufficient? How can I embrace the notion that my “not-enough” can still be used by God?
Reflect on a time when I experienced God taking something small or inadequate and using it for a greater purpose in my life. What was that experience like?
In what ways can I offer my gifts, even if they seem inadequate, to the community or church around me?
How can I practice coming to God in humility, acknowledging my limitations, and trusting in His ability to make my efforts sufficient?
How do my daily work and rest have purpose and meaning?
In what ways does my regular work offer opportunities to love God and love others?
In what ways does my regular rest offer opportunities to love God and love others?
What is the quality of my rest? Is it real rest as God intends, or is it simply please and distraction?
What is the attitude I have in my work? Is it just to get by for a paycheck, or do I participate in it with reverence and holiness as an opportunity to love God and love others?