
You can now tune into my children’s homilies each month on the “Sacred Stories with Fr. Derek” page (and on YouTube)! Just click the link at the top of the page.

You can now tune into my children’s homilies each month on the “Sacred Stories with Fr. Derek” page (and on YouTube)! Just click the link at the top of the page.
Find the full text of the homily here.
Book: The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe by C.S. Lewis (1950)
This delightful story by C.S. Lewis is the opening to the Narnia series. My son and I love to read these stories. They are quite accessible for kids starting around age 7, but I think its important for adults to read literature meant for children. I tend to prefer Tolkien over Lewis, though I love Lewis too. The Narnia stories are full of Christian allegory that opens the gospel in wonderful ways.
Song: Bind Us Together by the Porter’s Gate
The Porter’s Gate is a sacred ecumenical collective arts group that produces a couple albums of music a year around various themes relevant to the world and the Church. Their most recent project (currently underway) is called The After Party, which is a collection of songs addressing the political polarization we are experiencing in the United States from a Christian perspective. This song, “Bind Us Together” is a beautiful prayer for Christian unity, and speaks to the theme St. Paul wrote about in his letter to the Ephesians. I didn’t speak about the end of our lectionary passage from Ephesians in my homily this week, but Paul emphasizes the role of prayer in wearing the armor of God, and in particular, prayer for one another. As you reflect on the battles you are fighting, whether they be battles against people or the cosmic battle against evil and division, let this song be a prayer for the victory of God in the cosmic quest for reconciliation.
Book: The After Party: Toward Better Christian Politics by Curtis Chang and Nancy French
I have not yet read this book, so I recommend it with that caveat, but it is the book (and curriculum series) the Porter’s Gate are teaming up with to address the political polarization we are currently experiencing in the United States. I look forward to diving into this book.
I preached my first homily at St. Peter’s this weekend! It was a delight.
LauraAnn and I have been vegetarians now for more than 12 years, and our boys have grown up with only a vegetarian diet. Sometimes we get questions about what that means and why we choose a vegetarian diet, so I thought I’d write a short blog post about.
I want to be upfront that our choice of a vegetarian diet is completely personal. We do not believe that everyone should be a vegetarian, and we do not cast judgment on those who eat meat. We don’t at all mind people eating meat around us, and we don’t even mind meat being in our house. We just don’t eat it personally, that’s all. Here’s what that means for us.
To be vegetarian family simply means that we don’t eat meat. Or to be more direct, we don’t eat animals. There are similar diets that we have tried in the past (such as vegan or pescatarian), but they are different. A vegan diet means that you don’t eat animals or anything that comes from them (including dairy, eggs, and sometimes honey). A pescatarian diet means that you eat seafood but no other meat. As vegetarians, we do eat dairy and eggs (though we try to be more conscious of where they come from), but we do not eat fish or any other animals.
For me, there are four reasons.
1. Compassion for animals.
The vast majority of meat produced in the United States and other places comes from abused animals. I mean this in quite a literal way. What you’d go to jail for doing to a dog, is the normal treatment of cows, pigs, and chickens in factory farming. Most of us simply would rather not know “how the sausage is made.” When LauraAnn and I learned a bit about the meat industry, meat lost its appeal.
That said, there are non-abusive ways of getting meat. Hunting or buying from your local farm is a great alternative. We just decided to keep it simple and not eat meat at all.
2. Compassion for our bodies.
From our research, a plant-based diet that reduces the consumption of meat (especially red meat), is significantly better for the body. And taking care of our bodies is important.
3. Compassion for the environment.
Surprisingly, the meat industry is one of the biggest contributors of carbon emissions and thus climate change. My understanding is that eating a vegetarian diet has a greater positive impact on the environment than even switching to an electric vehicle.
4. Compassion for the poor.
It takes a lot of food and land to produce livestock, and we’d have more food to feed the global hungry if those resources were redirected directly to people rather than the animals we raise to eat. We decrease the amount of food available to the human population when we eat meat.
These four reasons have guided us to our family’s decision to eat a vegetarian diet. I don’t write as an expert on these issues, just as someone doing the best I can to cultivate compassion in the world and in our family life. Lots of others come to other decisions, and that’s perfectly okay! No judgement here. I encourage us all to prayerfully do the best we can with the information that is given to us.
You’ll notice that in my reasons I haven’t explicitly cited Scripture or my faith. Faith is certainly a huge influence in my intention for being a vegetarian, but it is not a Scriptural or doctrinal mandate. There is nowhere in Scripture that says you should reduce your meat consumption and there is no Christian doctrine that says you should be a vegetarian. That said, there are many Christians throughout the centuries that have become vegetarians or have had plant-based leaning diets. I think that’s because when we cultivate compassion in our lives and seek to find God’s presence in everything around us, it inevitably effects the way we see animals and the way we eat as well. Does my faith have something to say about the way I eat? I say, yes. Some of the Christians and religious leaders that influenced me the most in my vegetarian diet may surprise you: early Christian monks and nuns, Francis of Assisi, John Wesley, Leo Tolstoy, Mahatma Gandhi, and… Mr. Rogers!
We eat a lot! And especially fruits and vegetables, of course! These days though there is a vegetarian substitute for almost everything, even hot dogs. So our diet doesn’t actually look that different from a lot of others. We just substitute the meat for something else. Impossible Burgers and Beyond Burgers are delicious! Generally though, we eat lots of Italian and Mexican foods, which are easy to make vegetarian. We’re always up for trying a new vegetarian dish.
Honestly, after 12 years of not eating meat, we hardly even think about our diet anymore. It’s not something hard to do, though at first there might be a learning curve. People tell me all the time that “they could never be a vegetarian,” and maybe that’s true, but when I became a vegetarian I didn’t even like vegetables. I started small. I reduced red-meat consumption. I ate vegetarian for Lent. I tried new things. It was something I learned and came to love. Maybe you would like it to!
Yesterday my family said goodbye to Good Shepherd after being with them for three years and 6 days. It was an amazing three years and six days, and we are incredibly grateful to have been part of such a wonderful community. We will miss them dearly, even while being excited to join our new parish family, St. Peter’s Episcopal Church in Plant City, FL.
Here is my last homily at Good Shepherd. You can find the full text of the homily here.
Find the full text of the homily here.
Prayer Practice: The Welcoming Prayer
The prayer of welcoming grace into things unwanted or uncomfortable resonates with the Welcoming Prayer, developed by Mary Mrozowski, a lay contemplative, and Thomas Keating, a Trappist Monk. This has been one my core prayer practices. Click the above link to learn more about the practice.
I also preached a sermon on the Welcoming Prayer a couple years ago. Find it at the link above.
Teaching from the Book of Occasional Services on Exorcisms
There is a very brief explanation of exorcisms in the Episcopal Church’s Book of Occasional Services. If you are interested in learning more, click the above link and scroll down to page 233. While you are there, look at some of the beautiful occasional services included in the book.
I thought when peace moved in
she’d send anxiety a notice of eviction.
Instead she became his roommate.
And at night when he paces the living room,
she makes him a cup of tea.
And in the morning when he snoozes the alarm clock,
she lets in the sunlight.
I thought when peace moved in
anxiety would move out.
But anxiety didn’t go anywhere.
He’s still there.
He’s just no longer alone.

After three incredible years serving as the Associate Rector at Good Shepherd Episcopal Church, I have now been called to serve as Rector at St Peter’s Episcopal Church Plant City, Florida!


Good Shepherd has been such a wonderful home for us and we are so grateful to our friends and parish family here. It will not be easy to leave. I have loved working with Sanford Groff and all of our staff and volunteers, and they will continue to do great things with Good Shepherd.
And yet the Holy Spirit is moving in some exciting ways and leading us to a really wonderful parish in St. Peter’s, a community with which we already share so much in common.
St. Peter’s is also just down the road from where I grew up. And now our boys will get to grow up near their grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins!
Please pray for us as we make this transition! My last Sunday at Good Shepherd will be July 21st and my first Sunday at St. Peter’s will be August 18th.
Find the full text of the homily here.
Song: Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus
If I were a baptist or pentecostal preacher, this is the song I’d ask the band to play at the altar call after the homily (and Shane and Shane do it so well!). It preaches the message much better than I have. I like to listen to this song while praying with an icon of Jesus, and looking upon his face. Perhaps it will help calm your fears as it has mine.
Alongside of the text of this homily, I’ve posted pictures from one of my favorite children’s Bibles, Moments with Jesus. What is unique about this Bible (and it is NOT just for children) is that it tells the story in the second person as an imagined, meditative experience and includes reflection questions. Plus the illustrations are beautifully fantastic! In the book’s telling of Jesus calming the storm, it invites the reader to imagine what it would have been like to be on the boat. It also asks these two sets of questions: (1) Have you ever felt as scared as the disciples in the storm? What made you afraid? and (2) Picture that scary moment in your imagination, but this time picture Jesus there with you. Is He scared? What is He doing? What is He saying? How do you feel about that
Find the full text of the homily here.
Livestream: The Poetry Broadcast by Billy Collins
Billy Collins continues to read poetry for the world on his Facebook page every Tuesday and Thursday at 5:30pm. Join him at the link above.
Poem: “Introduction to Poetry” by Billy Collins
This classic poem of Collins draws a distinction between approaching a poem as something to be solved or unlocked rather than poetry as something to be playfully and creatively experienced. I think we are often tempted to read parables the same way. Rather than playfully turning our attention to them, we become too academically rigid in our approach, expecting there to be some single correct answer or solution to the parable.
Book: Practicing the Presence of God by Brother Lawrence
This book was written in the 16th century by a Carmelite Friar and is a classic. The book speaks about cultivating an awareness of God’s presence in every moment, even in (and especially in) the mundane.
Book: Wherever You Go, There You Are: Mindfulness Meditation in Everyday Life by Jon Kabat-Zin
This book, from outside the Christian tradition, teaches some of the basic concepts of mindfulness meditation and the art of paying attention. First published in 1994, it has become a consistent best-seller in the area of spiritual practice and living well.